
One year ago today I spent the day watching Dr. Christine Blazey Ford testify before the Senate Judiciary Committee. Her story of being assaulted by Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh was compelling, sobering, and for those of us sexual assault victims, triggering. Immediately following her testimony, even some Republican Senators said she was “credible.” Remember that word? “Credible”? Of course that was before Mr. Kavanaugh gave his own defiant, angry testimony, announcing his affinity for beer, complaining bitterly how his life and his reputation and his family would be “ruined” if he was denied the big, professional prize, that Supreme Court seat. As we all know now, Dr. Blazey Ford is the one whose life was ultimately ruined. By eleven white men. I wrote this poem a year ago, but it seems fitting to publish it on the anniversary of her testimony.
11 White Men
Eleven white men sit in silence
afraid of optics
and history repeating
Eleven white men cede their time to a female prosecutor
cede expressions of empathy
until the witness becomes a man
Eleven white men push aside the prosecutor
comfort restored
optics no longer matter
Eleven white men vote in favor of the man
a credible accuser’s words
simply not enough
our divided nation watches
women’s voices be assaulted by
Eleven white men
Yesterday we heard that word again–“credible.” This time it was applied to a complaint filed by a courageous federal whistle-blower. “Credible,” said the Inspector General who reviewed the complaint and completed its initial investigation. “Credible,” said the Acting Director of National Intelligence yesterday, as he testified before the House Intelligence Committee.
There are consequences when our leaders ignore “credible” things. September 11th happened because “credible” threats were ignored. A tainted Supreme Court Justice sits on the bench because “credible” allegations were ignored, not only by the eleven white (Republican) men on the Judiciary Committee, but also by the FBI who was asked to dig deeper into Justice Kavanaugh’s behavior while he was drinking all of that beer in college, but ultimately did not contact any corroborating witness.
I realize that “credible” doesn’t automatically mean “true.” But when that word appears in the context of something important to our nation and its future, it is worth taking seriously. This latest “credible” allegation, which not only describes our President pressuring a foreign leader for personal political gain but also its apparent cover up, is no different. We should be paying attention to and supporting those who do take it seriously. And on November 3, 2020 we should pledge not to vote for those who don’t.
Fabulous and important writing, Cathy! â¤ï¸
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Cathy,
I hadn’t realized what today’s date was, and I think I’m glad of that. It was such an emotional day that started out with toast at my best friends house as we watched together and ended with chocolate! It was a very emotional day with tears and hugs.
For me, the situation brought up the sexual assault I had buried for many years. I am proud of this anniversary too because I am in a group of amazing survivors, I can finally tell my truth and can write Me Too!
Thanks Cathy for your wisdom, your precious heart and your friendship.
Hugs, Jane
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Cathy, this is beautifully written and a great reminder to what went down a year ago. Thank you for sharing this!
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